Emor 2005 (Leviticus 21:1-24:23)

There are times in my life when being a rabbi and being a musician come together to create an opportunity to experience holiness in unexpected and profound ways. Such an opportunity came to me last Sunday, when I had the remarkable experience of performing in an interfaith concert with five other musicians and singers at …

Emor (Leviticus 21:1-24:23)

What an extraordinary week it was for all of us. Ten different religious institutions joining together to celebrate the values that we cherish and hold in common. A week-long gathering of men, women and children willing to share their most cherished hopes and prayers, wrestle together over what each of us means by respect and …

Kedoshim (Leviticus 19:1-2 0:27)

I had the privilege this evening of speaking at the Hillcrest Country Club to members of the club who had gathered for their annual United Jewish Fund dinner. They gather each year at a formal dinner and make their financial commitments to support the much-needed work of the organized Jewish community of Los Angeles.

Metzorah2 (Leviticus 12:1-13:59)

It was one of those difficult weeks where nearly every day I received a phone call about either a sudden death in the community or someone who had just discovered one form of cancer or another and was struggling with the “Why me?” question and the fear of death staring them in the face. It …

Tazria (Leviticus 12:1-13:59)

This week is one of the least popular bar or bat mitzvah portions in all the Torah. It is filled with laws for how to recognize and treat leprosy when it is found on one’s body, one’s clothes or in one’s home. Most kids are a bit squeamish about skin diseases so they search for …

Shemini (Leviticus 9:1-11:47)

“What is your favorite thing to eat on Passover?” I asked a group of religious school kids last week. “Matzah!” they cried almost in unison. And then the voices of clarification began to appear: “Actually, it’s Matzah with peanut butter and jelly that I take to school for lunch,” one child said. “Matzah brei for …

Tzav (Leviticus 6:1-8:36)

We are living in scary times. Bombs are being dropped and guided missiles sent to the heart of Baghdad. Hundreds of thousands of soldiers, young men and women from across the United States and Great Britain are stepping into deadly combat even as you read these words. They are bravely staring the uncertainty of death …

Dealing with Feelings of Failure in “Marrying Out”

A conversation between Rabbi Reuben and “Mary” (Names in correspondence have been changed to protect privacy) From: Mary Sent: Thursday, August 20, 2009 To:* Rabbi Reuben Subject:* Advice: Dealing with Feelings of Failure in Marrying Out Hi, My name is Mary. I’m from Kentucky and went to Catholic school-although neither my family nor I are …

Beshalakh 2005 (Exodus 13:17-17:16)

One of my favorite stories about parents and children is the one where a mother stands on her front porch watching as her young son struggles to lift a large stone that is obviously too heavy for him to manage. She watches in silence as he grunts and groans and strains to lift this heavy …